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Romantic Separation Experience as the Matter of Phenomenological Analysis
Kryuchkov Kirill Sergeevich

Board Member, the Russian Community for Person-Centered Approach

107031, Russia, Moskva oblast', g. Moscow, ul. Petrovka, 17s4, of. 69

kkryuchkov@gmail.com

 

 

Abstract.

The aim of this research is to analyze experience of separation with a lover. The matter under research is the romantic separation experience as it has been described by different authors. The bases of the research is the methodology of qualitative research. Taking into account that the objective of the research is to analyze the phenomenon of such experience, qualitative analysis has been chosen by the author as the most suitable research method. The novelty of this research is caused, first of all, by the fact that this is the first full empirical research of separation experience in Russian psychology. Secondly, the research provides a vast description and analysis of separation experience which allows to get a full insight into the phenomenon. The main result of the research is the general description of romantic separation experience as it is described in literature, on the other hand, and in actual experience of respondents, on the other hand. The researcher has discovered and described particular features of the process of romantic separation experience, in particular, dependence of the intensity of emotions on who initiated the separation. The researcher discovers particular feelings and emotions that comprise this experience. The researcher has also discovered the 'mind-feeling-body' conflict that creates prospects for further researches. 

Keywords: Psychology of love, Psychology of art, Psychology of relationships, Phenomenological interview, Qualitative research, Phenomenology, Romantic separation, Separation experience, Phenomenological analysis, Psychology of experiencing

DOI:

10.25136/2409-8701.2019.2.27954

Article was received:

14-11-2018


Review date:

09-11-2018


Publish date:

12-05-2019


This article written in Russian. You can find full text of article in Russian here .

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